TJ Holmes Married?
Is TJ Holmes married? TJ Holmes married questions getting heat up as Holmes says goodbye to Betty Nguyen on Sunday.
On the Valentine’s Day, TJ Holmes twitters to Betty: “Happy Valentine’s Day! @bettynguyencnn and I have already been arguing about who should be more generous … men or women.”
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He is divorced from ex wife Amy, once dated TLC’s Rozonda “Chili” Thomas, and is now engaged.
Holmes recently wrote about his encounters with racism on the AC360 site:
“I haven’t come in contact with a lot of blatant racism in my life. Yes, I’ve been called the N-word. To be honest, it never really upset me because as soon as that word comes out of someone’s mouth, I’m pretty sure that I’ve won the argument. That person has just confirmed how ignorant they are. I don’t necessarily consider most people racist. I have, however, seen a lot of racial bias. What I mean by that is people don’t hate me because of the color of my skin, but they simply don’t see me as an equal. Some may say that by not seeing me as an equal, that’s the very definition of racism. Rather, I believe people have so many misconceptions and preconceived notions about black people. They make assumptions based on the color of my skin.”
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“One day a man came over to me as I was washing my truck and said, “Man, I just gotta know. What do you guys do to have nice cars like that?” He was a nice enough guy and wasn’t really nasty when he asked the question. He truly seemed puzzled about how a young, black man could be driving such a nice car. He went on to ask me if I played for the San Francisco 49ers. Again, I’m 5?11? and 165 lbs. No, I don’t play for the 49ers. The guy’s first thought at seeing a young, black man in a nice car was not that I could have gotten it through education and hard work. That is what I mean by bias.”